Have you ever experienced a feeling of unlovable? in this phase no matter how much love and care is being pampered to you by a single person or may be in multiple forms you would just feel like you don’t deserve this kind of treatment anymore from anyone just because you have a fear of what if they let you down when you needed them the most ? What if they suddenly stop showing up in life as they used to ? What if they knew how bad you are at things? We start questioning so much that we stop trusting even our family in this phase it sounds stupid to the entire society but this is what being a unlovable entity is. We just up end up degrading every relationship in our life thinking of the consequences of what if this suddenly stops ? Would I be able to handle my self…Lack of good traits,unattractive beauty features,lack of emotional intelligence, are few of among reasons why certain people are unlovable in eyes of someone.What makes someone unlovable is their inability to make others desire them.Some people find certain types of people are inherently undesirable.But those individuals are minorities.

No matter why you’re feeling little down,just know that this feeling won’t last very long.Feeling like you’re are unlovable isn’t an everlasting feeling you can get through it with some time and a little help.If you start feeling like you’re unlovable,there are really important things you have to remember.

1)Your mind is in a negative place and that’s all.

2)Focusing on positives can help.

3)Nobody important in your life thinks you’re unlovable.

4)Negative things other people say don’t matter.

5)Your self esteem just took a hit.

6)Being busy doing something you love can make it better.

7)There are more things good about you than bad.

8)Accepting Who you are as a person

9)Surround yourself with people who love you.

10)Yes you are loveable.

“Pain is a compliment,a reward from god to love the unlovable.”