
Hitting the corner of 2020 many individuals are just ragging till the end of this year no one knows how this gonna end but still a hope of experiencing something new in the upcoming year.We must admit 2020 has brought up all the potential inside us which we never thought of before.Wise man once said “Just as a man cannot live without dreams,he cannot live without hope.If dreams reflect the past,hope summons the future”.So to those who lost faith didn’t want to live,while those who had self motivation “Survival” hits harder to such individuals.Survival typically refers to enduring circumstances or situations that may challenge a persons well being and life,or to persevering through trials and hardships.It is not the strongest of the species that survives,nor the most intelligent,but the one most responsive to change.Every one of us have some hatred towards change which seems impossible in the early stage thinking of why should I change or this change is next to impossible.But when the decision gets affirmative and we start to bring out some changes to support the current situation you will realise in some days the situation on which you were cursing yourself have actually changed you and that’s where you survived the moment.
Being in the survival mode actually has many advantages it shows you the mirror image to yourself and asks for the change within to support the current circumstances.Most of us get frustrated at times cursing our destinies for such events but if we think the either way round we should take this as opportunities and a chance to bring out a new version of ourselves fighting the battle of You Vs You and give answers to those fellows who had already gave up on you that’s nothing but surviving in toughest situations of life no matter what life throws back on you if has meant to be happen let’s face them with no fear,once mind is prepared nothing is impossible.Also if you survived with a greater courage next such hardships which are eventually planned in life would be no more a big mighty problem.So ideally all this Events are nothing but training sessions of hardships which only comes with 1 slogan “Do or Die” choice is yours and result would be the fruits of future so make sure you reap and pluck the right fruits for better and brighter future.
Some steps to survive worst moments of life :
1)Don’t compare your sufferings to others.We all feel things slightly different.Stop measuring how much of a right you have to feel bad and just let yourself feel bad.
2)Identify the feeling what is it ?Anger?Grief?Jealousy?Sadness?Despair?
3)Go ahead and cry if you need to.No Shame.It’s healthy.We all need to cry sometimes.
4)Once you have figured out who to blame,immediately forget that person.No matter how hard it is.
5)What did you mess up?What do you wish you could go back and change?
6)Immediately Forgive yourself .
7)Don’t be afraid to be alone sometimes.Become your own best freind.
8)Promise yourself you will take advantage of these lessons and be better next time.
9)Understand that most things in life are good and bad at the same time.What changes is our perspective.
10)Pour Yourself a Drink and Start Fresh!😇
“The most difficult thing in your life is to know yourself”