Finding Your Own Space!

Privacy : “A state in which one is not observed or disturbed by other people”. After a certain age it’s an obvious feeling in this teenage hood to do what your heart says and keep the privacy timeline up.Everyone should respect each other’s privacy isn’t it ? I mean it doesn’t mean we are not answerable to any one yes we do but in this 21st century a kid can or I would say should be capable of taking his own decisions what is good and bad for him/her.Its a hate feeling when someone is trying to control you not because you are not capable enough but just because you are not experienced. At this point of time adultery life has gone on a toss. Some say this thoughts are being ruined because of the western culture in fluency. I think it’s not about which culture we follow it’s all about how we feel ? how can we make our decisions instead of getting carried away with life decisions just because our parents think this is right for us.Nowadays, there is no respect to the privacy of the kids.They have been monitored all time , they need to know everything you do,just so that they can settle the dread in their hearts-that you will do something wrong and end up in trouble.Instead we should build such relationship with kids that they don’t feel the need to hide anything.Invading someones privacy,though a good pre-caution,is not completely correct.More you stalk,the better they get at hiding information from you.Invading someone’s personal space makes them rebellious.Thats all.

Keeping your personal life private isn’t such an easy task.It’s flattering that people genuinely care what we’re doing with our days-where we’re living,what we’re doing with our days-where we’re living,what we’re doing for work,who we’re sharing our lives with,when we’re going to make our next career or relationship moves,why we’re doing what we’re doing, and how we’re going to achieve all of our life’s goals. It’s also frustrating when we’re not quite where we want to be yet, know we’re not, and then have to talk to people about why we’re not where we want to be and then listen to their suggestions, as if we haven’t already thought of those ideas ourselves.

Some ways to get off the grid.

1)Be Boring

If you don’t want people to know what’s going on in your life,bore them to death.By saying “I don’t know”, or “No Comment”.

2)Don’t Overshare

Just because you had a funny thought it doesn’t mean that you have to instantly figure out how to express it in 140 characters so you tweet it.

3)Unplug

Not only this mean refraining every now and again for using your cell phone,which has become an extension of your right hand at this point,it means being able to say “NO” and focus on what you need do do for yourself.

4)Know your limits

Determine the things about your life that you’re willing to share with others and the things that you don’t feel comfortable with

5)Save Some Secrets For Yourself

It feels nice to know things that other people don’t,right ?

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